Question about destination weddings (guests who can't afford to come)? - thanking guests who attend destination weddings
My friend and I are planning a wedding destination of Ixtapa.
We are aware that the costs for travel related to our wedding, would be prohibitively expensive for some friends and family members who usually attend our big day. We understand and accept.
However there are some people whose absence is not sacrifice: Yes, our parents and siblings. Therefore, when we informed our decision for a destination wedding, let them know that if they are able to conclude after reviewing your financial situation and that they pay can not afford to attend to the wedding, we are your travel, accommodation Costs do.
I understand that a destination wedding, most couples have not been paid for all guests. But will not the inability to travel in the way, do attend one of our parents and siblings. So my question is ... that our offer will extend to our brothers in order to pay the spouses of our brothers and son? To our brothers live in IM --rfriends friends?
The only people who believe that we must take our marriage, the parents and siblings (we close to our brothers in law) ... But it would be rude to offer to pay for our brothers and not pay for your spouse? Or did not matter because we are beautiful enough to pay for our brothers in the first place (the generosity, not required), so it should not for your spouse, unless we choose?
Your opinion would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Thanking Guests Who Attend Destination Weddings Question About Destination Weddings (guests Who Can't Afford To Come)?
1 comment:
As a wedding planner that plans for weddings, me, if you like family there, would mean that the family who feel excluded - is difficult to spouses, finally, how do you feel when they wanted to marry one of his brothers, but do not let it comes to his better half, the man?
Perhaps you could contribute an equivalent amount in U.S. dollars for the airfare and accommodation of a person - say $ 2500 - and decide whether they can get, so it may be, or use it to half of their costs cover since there are a few choices. .. But then you are not referring to those who can not come.
Does that make sense? I understand they want to ensure they deliver a lot of money, and the grace it is assumed that the cost is too much for some ... but I think if you opt for a dollar a pair, and let them decide for themselves how it intended to finance a single-or double-ticket ...
Congratulations on your marriage!
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